This is a theme that often eagerly awaited by parents and also often complained of many parents. "Why did my child do not enjoy learning, playing just a day," complained a mother.
Readers, do you true life that we humans are a learner? But we often give unpleasant treatment when a child learns (unconsciously) even used to be we probably given the wrong stimulation so that learning it is not fun.
For example, when our children and babies aged 1 year. He wanted to incorporate all the stuff he can hold in his mouth, right? Well, most people do when it was said "Uh ... It's dirty, should not be "while pulling the item. Actually, this is the behavior of the base at the time of a child's learning.
Then as she began to walk, can begin to want to know more about the environment, the more the ban issued by the parent or caregiver. Perhaps because tired of babysitting a day, so many restrictions that were issued. But this is their desire to know (learned) more, filling the database in his brain that is still empty and needs to be filled.
Moment begins to speak, ask this and that. "What is this? Why? " The answers are acceptable "Lha above already asked, now ask again, basic chatty" maybe that time caregivers and parents were tired also tend it, so lazy and tired to give an explanation and this is the learning process of a child.
When there are new items in the home and the children want to hold it or know the closer, then we are parents and caregivers keep such items away from him, the pretext later damaged because of expensive items.
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From the above examples where this piece is a real experience of mine and some of the clients, who make children become lazy learning?
Next, there is an 8-year-old child, call it Armand. His parents strongly complained about, that his son doesn't like learning and have got warnings from her teacher if there is no change in attitude it will most likely not rising Armand class.
When met, I'm sure Armand was an extraordinary child. For a moment I asked about his favorite hobbies and time to play, I quickly found out this kid was incredible. Because after I ask about his hobby turned out to be soccer, and his favorite team is Arsenal (United Kingdom League).
And Armand memorized the entire core and reserve players Arsenal, following coach and his assistant as well as a number of players back, the anniversary date of the players as well as a list of goals and assists printers (bait giver) and point league table and order. Superb!! In my heart, there's nothing wrong the same hardware (brain), but the problem is the software.
One person of the same child, his brain if it made learning a lesson at school not functioning (counting, memorize) but memorized the entire player's Arsenal.
What child is this stupid? Surely you agree with me, the answer is no. This kid is good at is incredible. It's just the wrong treatment that he was lazy and don't like to learn.
Then what I do to change in order for the software to be good, and make it so easy to learn? I fix her parents first, as for the older age bracket Armand, if there is a problem in her life means parents that will help to address the problems of these children.
I teach you how to communicate with the child and the nature of the mind of the child, as well as the importance of giving priority to love in educating children, all of whom will be very long if I described here.
Next are tips how to keep our children, be diligent and easy to learn and the school.
When he returning to home from school, ask "Hi Darling, what a fun today at school?" The child's brain will automatically find the fun things at school and it indirectly will tell the child that a school is a nice place.
While the children sleep, said "the more days, learning the more enjoyable", "as well as playing, learning was also very enjoyable", "easy for you to learn (counting, memorizing, etc.)".
Explain the benefits of the lessons has been learned (in accordance with the child's interest), for example, by studying the multiplication, it is now a holiday ride class later you can calculate how prices of goods would you buy in Singapore. If you controlled the conversation in English then you will be very easy to communicate.
Ask the teacher tutoring lesson, often say that our children are children who are great and wonderful. A sincere compliment and pumping her spirit is much more important than teaching technique techniques arithmetic and memorization that quickly. Enlist the help of people around including teachers to enhance the self-esteem of our children.
If our children were little and still likes to read fairy tale, read fairy tales to the position he occupied him (with a comfortable position, as well as make it easier for our parents to give the kiss of affection or a hug dear) purpose is to make children associate reading the book with a sense of love of parents and the book is a very enjoyable.
Use of mail secret from parents to children, we could have said "son, the mother had put the letter secret for you. Just you and the mother who knew of its contents. The mother may be located under the pillow, read after eating--Yes. " Its contents can be words that encourage the child in learning activities and his school.
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